salaam alaah walrahamah....
sisters,i want help from you,i've heard your help from you to all the other titles that are in this site,and i have hope that i will have lots of help from you.....

i'm 19 and im so scared from geting a new life (married) two of my sisters are married , my big sis is in lots of problems her husband is in newyork and she is with us in michigan,he is there cuz his fmilly told him so he can give them money to yemen where they live,and they want my sis to go there to yemen cuz they think that my sis is not making him get the amout money that they want ,for them to make a house and get his brother married and all that problems..... its hard no one wants his bro cuz he is not in school and doesnt pray,ect. my sis cant go cuz she stood their 3 years in yemen and waslike hell to her,she even gets help in michigan, like 600 dollars in a card that she get any food,and she gets almost another 300 for food too,see how it is she always cries from what they say and do she has two boys and a girl it bean 7 years from her marrige she havn't had a nice day and even if she'd get sonething happens.....:(my other sis is okay with her life she got married to my cuzin.......now its my turn and i always pray and tell people to (is-bir) but when it comes to me i need a little talk from my sisters ever one needs it what i want is a good man who knows alaah knows the deen i don't want to lose my life with a guy who is going to take me to hell!!!!and most important anyone who come for me is all the non-good mens who are seeking for the citizen girls like me:(

your sister,.

samaa

يا الله حزنتيني

أنت بعدكـ صغيرهـ

ترى كلنــــــــــا حنا البنات نخاف من كلمة (( زواج ))

و أنــــــا مثلكـ أخاف

لكن مثل ما قالت أختي فتاة المراعي استخيري أولا و بعدين ربي يكتب لكـ اللي فيـــهـ الخير

و الناس مو مثل بعض

كثير بنات كانوا خايفين من المشاكل و بعد الزواج صاروا عايشين بسعادهـ

الله يسعدكـ أختي و يكتب لكـ اللي فيهـ الخيـــــــررررر


أختكـ

shukraan my dear sister may alaah give you the gannah, walaah i am soo happy now that you talked to me and gave me hope,and most importantly im more happy to tell you from where i am
my contry is yemen,and my familly lives in ibb which is a place in yemen i hav'nt seen my contry i was born in coldwater, michigan hospital.......were from al-sh3r
and we are atwain's familly
we are kinda popular in yemen thats why people come and want us familly cuz as i told you almost my whole family are in america,and the men in yemen want us just for the papers,like my mommy says they get married to a inisent women then after they get what they want they devorce or get married again,... :( or just like how they say:
like taking a deliciuos orange and sqeezing it and throwing the rest,after you got what you wanted........

your sister in islam,.....
samaa

طيب يااختي الغالية منى

طالما عائلتكم تقريبا كلها في امريكا واقاربكم ..يعني مافييييييية نصييييب منهم

خخخخخخخخخخخخ تراااا امزح معااااااك يالغااااااالية

والمشكلة اللي انتي فيها كثيييير من البنات يخافوا منها ..

وخصوصا اللي عايشين في امريكا وكندا..كل تفكيرهم وخووفهم انة الرجل يتقدم لها طمعا في اوراق الجنسية

بس مو كل الرجال زي بعض مثل ماقالت الاخت رفيف الرووووح

واذا انتي من اب ..انا من ياافع ولدت وعشت في عدن والان اعيش في كندا ..طبعا من قبل لا اتزوج وانا في كندا

وعلى فكرة انا متزوجة الحين من ابن عمي ..وبعد الزواج هو جا والحين عايشين سوا ..والحمدلله مرتاااااحة في حياااتي وهو مافي احلى منة

الله يووووووفقك بأبن الحلال

وان شاءالله يتقدم لك احد ويكون من جنسيتك ويعيش في امريكا ..حتى لا تفترقي عن اهلك او تخاافي انة تقدم عشااان شي ثاااني

بالتوووفييييق غاليتي

I am with Ftat Al Maraay advice

moonaa u r stilll young

if u dont want to marry this will stlil be ur choice BUT if u r only scared about entering a new life a life of a married woman ther is no reason for scaring


sooner or later u'll be a mother, a wife and will have responsiblities

if u find the good person don't hesitste

MEN r not a like
ur life is not surely a copy of ur sister's life

May Allah help u and let u meet th husbanud u seek

Your SIS

Miss Bretty

salaam alaah alay-kumm,
thank you all sweat sisters,i loved your messages,yes i do and will always pray for the life im going to be through,sooner or later i will be a mother just like my sister said... all that you said made me feel that im not alone.......insha-alaah we will see each other in ganaah,yes men are not alike,i know that and i always say that,but whta made me worry is that the un-muta-day-in men that come for the citizen girls thats it and when you think about it and saw friends loose their lifes,(divorce and had children) you do feel scared ........get what i mean?ya....insha-alaah alaah will give me the good halal
love and kisses,....samaa <3